It’s taken me about 8 years of therapy, university, mentoring and coaching to finally have figured out what I’m here to do. I am here to help people heal their hearts and open to love. And by love I do not just mean smoochy romantic love, but also love for self, love for our work and purpose, love for our fellow citizens and creatures big and small, and love for our home planet earth.
I know it may be hard to admit, but you guys are not simply looking for physical companionship. . . Much of the time there are deeper underlying issues and needs that you haven’t even begun to look at. You are probably unaware of them now. But it will be my job to introduce you to a new way of thinking and a new way of being, so that you can develop awareness of your own spiritual path and start enhancing your consciousness and understanding of self. (Of course this won’t be for everyone; only those interested in growing. Those who realize that our lives don’t get better until we turn within and change ourselves on the inside first. I will hold no judgement against those who are not interested in changing themselves.)
I can tell you though, there are SO MANY WOMEN who are YEARNING for you guys to awaken to the power of love. The meaning, the fulfillment, the beauty and the rewards that TRUE LOVE and INTEGRITY have to offer. It’s not just a relationship, it’s a way of life. A lifestyle rooted in goodness, truth, service to a higher power, and love.
I am here to help heal your wounds. Wounds like: rejection, failure, self-judgement, comparison syndrome, ego sabotage, lack of self-esteem/self-worth/self-compassion/self-love, uncertainty about who you really are and what you really want. . . I am here to help you realize there is no emptiness inside of you, only room for exploration and growth. As much as you may not believe it… THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. You are not broken. On the other side of your pain lies the perspective and wisdom to liberate you. You simply need support to guide you to this new awareness.
I see too many men backing away from love because they don’t feel capable. Resorting to being a workaholic to avoid dealing with relationships altogether. Settling for porn and escorts instead of developing a healthy romantic partnership that has the power to heal all our wounds and prepare us to become the people we are capable of being. That is the purpose of love. To lift us to our ultimate power so we can share it with the world and bless as many people as possible.
(I’m not saying relationships are for everyone; some people nowadays prefer casual arrangements or open relationships, which are all well and good so long as they are also based in honesty and truth and no one is getting hurt.)
The law of the universe is that whatever energy you PUT OUT is what you will then RECEIVE. Are you putting out negative energy like; dishonesty, lies, resentment, judgement, betrayal? Or are you emanating happiness, love, goodness, authenticity, inspiration? If we don’t heal ourselves we will unconsciously be living from our wounds and thus emanating negativity energy depending on our personal history (what happened with mommy and daddy and previous relationships) and what we have been through in our lives thus far. It is therefore ESSENTIAL that we develop self-awareness and heal where we are wounded so that we can be CONSCIOUS about our energy and how we are affecting those around us.
important: we can internalize or externalize our pain and wounds
So the process is:
1) develop self-awareness and identify wounds
2) understand, process and heal those wounds
3) develop a conscious and mindful practice of managing your energy so that you consciously start attracting WHAT YOU DESIRE rather than what you don’t want
It’s about discovering YOUR TRUTH and then being able to share it authentically and unapologetically with others.
What is right for you?
What feels good to you?
What does your heart and soul desire?
Whether you are seeking:
a career change
to make more money
to learn about women
to attract the right partner
to learn how to love yourself
to deepen your intimacy with your partner
to navigate through the storm of a divorce or separation
to find peace in dealing with a frustrating ex partner
to heal a broken heart
to recover your relationship after having cheated
to transform physical insecurities
to finally feel worthy of love and success
to find your own passion and inner voice…
All of these issues and more I am capable of addressing and helping you with.
If you are interested in working with me you can come see me in person or we can have a phone/Skype appointment. Sessions are $200/hr.
Coaching will be BY APPLICATION ONLY so I can screen through the many pranksters and time wasters this is sure to attract. I am here to serve those of you who are serious and actually care about this work, not indulge those immature men and boys who think and take this as a joke. You will then be able to schedule an introductory session with me to see if we are a good fit to work together.