To Really Love a Woman

I hate to quote Bryan Adams but I’m going to 😉

His song is a rarity; it gets to the depths of feeling required to experience a deep connection.

To really love a woman
To understand her you gotta know her deep inside
Hear every thought see every dream
N’ give her wings when she wants to fly
Then when you find yourself lyin’ helpless in her arms
Ya know ya really love a woman
When you love a woman you tell her
That she’s really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she’s the one
‘Cause she needs somebody to tell her
That it’s gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman?
To really love a woman
Let her hold you
Til ya know how she needs to be touched
You’ve gotta breathe her really taste her
‘Til you can feel her in your blood
N’ when
The problem most men have with understanding women is that they can’t crack the ‘feminine code’. But in essence there is no ‘code’; it simply requires an understanding of masculine and feminine energy and polarity.
Most men are stuck in masculine mode; thinking, rationalizing, solving problems, producing, creating, doing, doing, doing. . . But WOMEN get sick of being in that mode! Women, real feminine women are about FEELING, BEING, losing themselves in the moment, revealing their true hearts desires, letting go and surrendering into beauty, honesty, transparency, affection. They want to nurture and care, appreciate, show gratitude, and love you with their bodies, words and actions. They don’t really give a monkey’s bottom about the bottom line (profits), planting their flag on the moon, or supporting Donald Trump. LOL
Men can be stuck in the ‘gotta earn, gotta produce, gotta achieve, gotta conquer’ mentality, and if you are stuck there you will never truly learn how to let go and be ravished by a woman’s feminine charms.
This is why men too are embracing yoga and meditation and mindfulness practices. Because you can’t be available to experience love if all you’re doing is trying to accomplish things.

“Shall I confess it?- I believe in broken hearts, and the possibility of dying of disappointed love! I do not, however, consider it a malady often fatal to my own sex; but I firmly believe that it withers down many a lovely woman into an early grave. . . Man is the creature of interest and ambition. . . but a woman’s whole life is a history of the affections.”

  • Rosemary Sullivan (from her book Labyrinthe of Desire which I wholeheartedly recommend)

Now deep down, men DO have access to their feminine essence. Because at the core of us, we are the same. We both have emotions, feelings, vulnerability, passion, creativity, and heart. It’s just that men are so forced into cutting themselves off from that part of themselves that they basically need to undergo a retraining of what it means to FEEL again.

It’s very sad but it’s the reality. And of course the opposite is also possible, and is probably even more fatal. A woman becoming obsessed with her career, prospects, money and masculine qualities will basically have no feminine healing energy to offer a man. And that is when he cheats or goes elsewhere for his dosage and battery charge of REAL WOMAN.

Here’s a great video of Bryan’s on this topic:

Save Your Relationship by Embracing Feelings


What other questions do you have on this topic? How can I help? Let me know 🙂


<3 Klara